31 Ways To Make a Girl Smile

1. Tell her she is BEAUTIFUL

2. Hold her hand at any moment even if its just for a second.

3. HUG HER FROM BEHIND!!!!!

4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.

5. Wrestle with her

6. don’t go hang out with you ex when shes not with you, you might not relize how badly it hurts her.

7. If youre talking to another girl, when you’re done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her….let her know she’s yours and they aren’t.

8. Write her notes or call her just to say “hi”

9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.

10. Play with her hair.

11. Pick her up (she loves it)

12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn’t like it

13. Make her laugh

14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.

15. If she’s mad at you, kiss her.

16. If you care about her, then TELL HER(don’t be afraid to)

17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she’ll hug it every time she goes to sleep),
jewelry (she’ll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she’ll most likely wear it to bed) or sweatshirts sprayed with
his cologne!! and flowers or something occasionally.

18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you’re alone.

19. Look her in the eyes and smile.

20. Hang out with her on weekends

21.Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)

22.Kiss her just for the hell of it

23. If your listening to music, let her listen too. =)

24. Remember her birthday and get her something,even if its simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means ALL the world to her.

25. when she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don’t (it’ll make her happy.)

26. Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don’t care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don’t necessarily have to have hour long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.

27. Give her wat she wants

28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the
most.

29.DONT hug her friends or your friends that are
girls cause she’ll feel left out.

30.hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time

31.If u care about her…SHOW her!(totally)

9 Things You Can Do to Be Happy in the Next 30 Minutes

Joy Gosney

9 Things You Can Do to Be Happy in the Next 30 Minutes
Surprising ways to instantly improve your mood.
by Gretchen Rubin

Being happier doesn't have to be a long-term ambition. You can start right now. In the next 30 minutes, tackle as many of the following suggestions as possible. Not only will these tasks themselves increase your happiness, but the mere fact that you've achieved some concrete goals will boost your mood.

1. Raise your activity level to pump up your energy. If you're on the phone, stand up and pace. Take the stairs instead of the elevator. Put more energy into your voice. Take a brisk 10-minute walk. Even better...

2. Take a walk outside. Research suggests that light stimulates brain chemicals that improve mood. For an extra boost, get your sunlight first thing in the morning.

3. Reach out. Send an e-mail to a friend you haven't seen in a while, or reach out to someone new. Having close bonds with other people is one of the most important keys to happiness. When you act in a friendly way, not only will others feel more friendly toward you, but you'll also strengthen your feelings of friendliness for other people.

4. Rid yourself of a nagging task. Deal with that insurance problem, purchase something you need, or make that long-postponed appointment with the dentist. Crossing an irksome chore off your to-do list will give you a rush of elation.

5. Create a more serene environment. Outer order contributes to inner peace, so spend some time organizing bills and tackling the piles in the kitchen. A large stack of little tasks can feel overwhelming, but often just a few minutes of work can make a sizable dent. Set the timer for 10 minutes and see what you can do.

6. Do a good deed. Introduce two people by e-mail, take a minute to pass along useful information, or deliver some gratifying praise. In fact, you can also...

7. Save someone's life. Sign up to be an organ donor, and remember to tell your family about your decision. Do good, feel good―it really works!

8. Act happy. Fake it 'til you feel it. Research shows that even an artificially induced smile boosts your mood. And if you're smiling, other people will perceive you as being friendlier and more approachable.

9. Learn something new. Think of a subject that you wish you knew more about and spend 15 minutes on the Internet reading about it, or go to a bookstore and buy a book about it. But be honest! Pick a topic that really interests you, not something you think you "should" or "need to" learn about.

Some people worry that wanting to be happier is a selfish goal, but in fact, research shows that happier people are more sociable, likable, healthy, and productive―and they're more inclined to help other people. By working to boost your own happiness, you're making other people happier, too.

How To Find A Good Man?

They say, opposites attract. Sadly, this is only half the truth. The fact is that opposites attract, but only in the case of magnetic poles. Imagine living with a person who is totally different in thought, emotion and action than what you are? It would be an absolutely irreparable mess. Both of you will be pulling each others hair apart and fighting constantly to prove your point. Avoid all this drama, and search for a man who understands you and compliments you, while you can do the same for him. And how do you do this? Let’s look at a few tips on how to find a good man.

Being Yourself
It is easy to put up a farce of what you are not, just to impress somebody. But, it’s extremely difficult to live with this subterfuge. Thus, if you want to make a lasting impression on someone you’ve met for the first time, be who you are. There is no need to dress provocatively just so you attract a potential love interest. In such a case, he will momentarily be attracted to your physical attributes. However, as he begins to see through your facade, he will find his first chance of escape. Thus, be yourself and allow others to see you for who you are, and not for what you pretend to be.

Image Improvisation
Scope of image improvisation exceeds beyond dressing up. It extends to how you carry yourself, how you talk, your social conduct and yes, your dressing sense too. If your image looks sloppy, you will attract only sloppy men. So, take a good look at yourself and make notes of self improvements. These can be related to your physical attributes too. For instance, overweight or underweight women are less likely to get a good man as compared to their healthy counterparts. So, whatever the case maybe, pull up your socks and get working on your image.

Social Animal
Man is a social animal and it’s time you realize it. Having a social life is a crucial factor to getting a good man. Being a loner will make you clingy towards every man you find. Some may stick around for a while and many will leave instantly. Let go off your hang ups and allow yourself to have fun with friends. Catching up with friends and having an active social life, is an excellent way of meeting people. Herein lies your chance of meeting the man of your dreams! So recharge your social life with optimism and welcome it with an open mind.

Effective Communication
Most men are terrible at showing their emotions. They open up only to a few people. It takes a good amount of trust and companionship, to get a man talking. So, be patient with a man you like, even if he takes time to allow you into his personal space. Do not judge him by his bluntness, as men are not really good with subtlety. Work on your verbal and non -verbal communication skills, so that you don’t miss out on a chance to get to know him better.

Quit Playing
We women love playing the chase game. It’s exhilarating to have someone chase us, till we get bored and find someone else. It’s fun making a man jealous and then have him woo you all over again. However, adult men think it’s an exercise in futile and will never fall for these mind games. The more games you play, the faster good men will run away from you. So, be yourself and give him a chance to see your love for him. If he is the one for you, then avoid pushing your luck too far.

Join a hobby class or a dance class and look for ways in which you can increase your social circle. It is easier to meet new people through friends and social activities such as parties, gatherings, classes and so forth. Every man is good in his own way, however a good man to you, will be the one who understands you. Hope you’ve found your answer for ‘how to find a good man’, through this article.