Sometimes it’s just the simple things, that we easily forget or think are unimportant that hold the key to a healthy and happy relationship.
I told you so
This words have no place in a loving relationship.There is no need to remind your partner that you were right about something and they were wrong.
Fighting in a public places
Telling private secrets or criticizing your partner in public or to someone else can do permanent damage to the trust and love in your relationship. Keep private things private.
Why do you always
Focusing on your partner’s weakness rather than building on their strengths will only increase their weakness and reduce their strength. Stick with the strengths and don’t focus on weakness.
Ask for your partner’s opinion and then do the opposite
If you ask where your spouse wants to go and he/she suggests a couple of places, then you select a different one, by your actions you said, “I do not respect your opinion and don’t care what you think” Since saying negative or hurtful things can be damaging to a loving relationship, it is wise to take extra caution before engaging your mouth when these negative thoughts come into your mind.
Blaming each other
Things do go bad from time to time in any relationship. Decisions turn out wrong.Stuff happens but the blame game never works. It breaks off and divides. It certainly weakens the trust and openness in your relationship.(eSappy.com)